Showing posts with label Joy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Joy. Show all posts

Monday, 23 October 2017

Intuition and the Healing Power of Play: Part II Play = Joy = Abundance

By Kumari Mullin

Your body cannot heal without play.
Your mind cannot heal without laughter.
Your soul cannot heal without joy.
- Catherine Rippenger Fenwick
And I would add "your prosperity cannot heal without time off." So even though I am in the midst of launching a new program and it seems counter-intuitive when I have so much on my plate, I have gone to the beach for a quick swim several times this week because I am finally appreciating the direct link between play and inspiration, creativity and productivity.
The energy of play is aligned with the energy of abundance. I have asked many successful teachers, authors, and coaches what they felt was their "secret sauce" for success. They unanimously shared that when they finally began to take more play time for themselves, their business and success soared.
One motivational speaker confided that years ago when she was a realtor, she made the unpopular decision to only work Monday to Thursday, and take time with her family on long weekends. Even though she wasn't working the prime time weekends doing open houses, this was the turning point when she really started making serious money as she felt refreshed, renewed and super focused when she was working. Basically, it returned her to a healthier balance, and she was happy again!
Marci Shimoff, perhaps one of the bestselling self-help women authors of all time, shared how she planned a week long silent retreat on a remote island nearly a year in advance. However, she almost canceled the retreat as she was launching a new book, thinking it was crazy to go away at such a critical time in her business.
Yet Shimoff reminded herself that she scheduled the retreat knowing how critical it was to take time to unplug. On day two of the retreat she was totally rewarded, as she received the inspiration for Chicken Soup for the Woman's Soul which led to six bestsellers and sold over 13 million copies.
In his book Play, author and psychiatrist Stuart Brown, MD, compares play to oxygen. He writes, "... it's all around us, yet goes mostly unnoticed or unappreciated until it is missing." This makes sense when we consider play is art, books, movies, music, comedy, flirting and daydreaming, writes Dr. Brown, who worked with renowned playful physician Patch Adams.
Healing Benefits of Play
Personally, since I have committed to playing this summer, I feel much better in my body. It is easier to follow my intuition about what food my body is craving, and I freed up time to overcome my resistance to cooking, and explore new recipes so I can prepare healthier meals. My relationship with my partner is also so much lighter and enjoyable as we share more fun moments together.
These benefits and more have been well documented. In the article "The Importance of Play for Adults", Margarita Tartakovsky, M.S. shares that play can:
- Relieve stress. Play is fun and can trigger the release of endorphins, the body's natural feel-good chemicals that promote a sense of well-being and can even relieve pain.
- Stimulate the brain. Playing chess, completing puzzles, or pursuing other fun activities that challenge the brain can help prevent memory problems and improve brain function.
- Boost creativity and problem solving. Play can also stimulate your imagination, helping you adapt and problem solve. You'll learn a new task better when it's fun and you're in a relaxed and playful mood.
- Improve relationships and your connection to others. Sharing laughter and fun can foster empathy, compassion, trust, and intimacy with others. Developing a playful nature can help you loosen up in stressful situations, break the ice with strangers, make new friends, and form new business relationships.
- Keep you feeling young and vital. Playing can boost your energy and vitality and even improve your resistance to disease.
Tips to Add More Play = JOY to your Day
Play is a fertile field for joy to blossom. Yet we often think we have to take a long vacation and wait for once a year to actually play. In his book, Dr. Brown writes that a little bit of play can go a long way toward boosting your productivity and happiness. So how can you incorporate more play in your life? Here are a few tips:
- Change how you think about play. Any time you think play is a waste of time, remember that it offers some serious benefits for both you and others. Remember that play is important for all aspects of our lives, including productivity, creativity and relationships. Give yourself permission and schedule some play time daily. 

- Play with children and pets. Playing with kids and animals helps us experience the magic of play. I have even witnessed puppies playing with older dogs who were arthritic and depressed, and it gave them a whole new lease on life.
- Bringing the element of play into daily tasks. During the day, I may run outside for a few minutes and sniff a flower, or walk barefoot in the grass. I love to add music to mundane tasks like paperwork and kitchen chores, and even dancing doing dishes. I sing songs and affirmations while showering which always lifts my spirit.
Now that you are aware of the myriad benefits of play, no more excuses. What are some ways you can add a bit of play to your day?
Kumari is an internationally acclaimed intuitive healer and master coach, best-selling author, spiritual evolutionary and animal mystic, Kumari's deepest joy is empowering healers, coaches, health professionals and conscious leaders to unwrap their innate intuitive, manifesting and healing gifts.
Visit http://www.KumariHealing.com for FREE audio training for greater Clarity, Ease and Empowerment.
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Saturday, 21 October 2017

Intuition and the Healing Power of Play

By 

"Don't question why she needs to be so free
She'll tell you it's the only way to be... "
-Rolling Stones, "Ruby Tuesday" lyrics
Knowing how important it is to maintain a high vibration and be in balance on every level, this summer I dedicated to saying yes to anything that felt good and made me happy. It was not a conscious choice at first; it was a deeper longing in my being to unplug from all the "doing" and feel... FREE. I wasn't feeling burnt out exactly, I was feeling something deeper stirring, and the normal busyness was not allowing the new level of self-nurturing, balance and integration to emerge.
While being drawn inside to a deeper listening, I found it wasn't enough to just sit quietly and meditate, or even to channel. My inner child was calling out to PLAY. My creativity was craving new expression and freedom. In short, my normal busyness and my packed schedule was not allowing enough space for my Soul. For me and many other seasoned light warriors I've spoken to, self-nurturing and play IS the missing piece to anchoring in the paradigm shift to higher levels of consciousness right now. I felt like a new space is opening up and we have to learn to walk all over again.
My strong sense of Higher Purpose that has driven me since I can remember began to fall away, as I gained a foothold in the fullness of this Presence, that kept demanding that I play. When did play become such a no-no? Who knew play could be so hard??? 


This may sound like it would be easy but the real truth is we get very attached to our busyness, our productivity, our "doing". As I chose to wander the new landscape of my Being-ness without the Busy-ness, I encountered many layers of thought that were totally plugged in to unconscious fears rooted in unworthiness.
Maybe you can relate to the myriad ways my self-worth was intricately woven into "working." I noticed the thought patterns of "I am not deserving of being supported if I am not working hard; I am lazy if I am not moving enough; if I am playing I should be more physically active; my money will suffer if I am not working long hours" and on and on.
Healing Gifts of Play
Committing to more play time has brought me many gifts in new awareness, deeper integration of the new energies I am sharing, and a level of self-loving that I am now not just teaching and giving, but truly receiving and living.
Though I totally ADORE what I do, it is really intense at times and I was not always conscious of how much energy and focus it takes. I had not always given myself enough space to truly balance my needs while taking on others' needs, even though it often totally uplifts me in the moment. I felt being a healer and mentor was my Soul Purpose and therefore I "should" be happy and grateful for serving in this way (which I truly am).
Yet the very way I was holding and feeling my "purpose" had to shift. The underpinnings of a sense of missionary zeal that I had to accomplish something incredibly important and if I didn't, well, the sky would fall or something began to feel off. It sounds laughable when I say it like that but many of you may also feel such a sense of urgency that it weighs quite heavily on your shoulders at times. Not exactly "grace and ease" and the incredible lightness of Being...
Real Play Requires Intuition, Trust and Presence
Devoting myself to play demanded that I be truly present in each moment. What my body wanted yesterday to feel good, was not the same today. What inspired me when I was 20, 30 or 40, may no longer be holding lasting joy for me now. The way others choose to play often doesn't fit for me.
This level of Presence was a calling or practice in itself. It requires enormous flexibility and tuning in with responsive attentiveness to my feelings, my energy, even my mood, without judging. My mind chatter that kept popping in needed serious weeding, and dropping all the "shoulds" requires a lot of courage.
I had to revisit my Trust and Faith which I always thought was very deep. Did I really believe in a universal abundance and flow, or did it only happen when I "earned" it by working hard? Did I have faith in my connectedness to Source in every decision, in every breath, that if I lived true to my inner knowing, I would not only survive, but truly thrive? Am I truly loved for who I am, not just what I do?
Permission to Play
As we near the close of summer I am beginning to rest in the knowing that my very presence, right here, right now, in this body is not only ENOUGH but a total BLESSING. At times I can tune into each step, each breath and trace the healing energy of this life force from Source gracing Mother Earth through me. Wow.
How would your life change if you began to accept this perception that your very presence on the planet JUST AS YOUR ARE... is enough? Is a blessing?
What would you let go of? What would you choose instead? How might your values and daily activities shift? What inspires your child within?
My intention for all of you, actually my Healing Rx (aka Prescription) and "Divine Orders": Play More!
Kumari is an internationally acclaimed intuitive healer and master coach, best-selling author, spiritual evolutionary and animal mystic, Kumari's deepest joy is empowering healers, coaches, health professionals and conscious leaders to unwrap their innate intuitive, manifesting and healing gifts.
Visit http://www.KumariHealing.com for FREE audio training for greater Clarity, Ease and Empowerment.